Avoiding Friction In Relationships

I have seen lot of friction between intelligentperson says. Think about it and before answering
people in my life. How to avoid that friction socount up to 100. I am not saying-10, but 100.
that one need not regret afterwards?After that instead of giving opinion or reacting,
First - look at the personality of the other person.ask. Ask what the other person means by what
Is it verbal, emotional or pictorial? A verbalhe/she says. that is very important. By asking
personality loves to talk. You will hear a wordyou make other person feel that he/she is being
such as it sounds well etc from such person. Theheard. After you are satisfied that you have
word sound tells us about that personality. Theasked all- begin your suggestions. No answers.
emotional personality feels. If she/he buys a car,Only suggestions. Begin with words such as-
they will try to feel the car with touch and decide.suppose dear we do like this? Or suppose dear,
A pictorial personality thinks in pictures. They goyou leave this job and do not get other
into vivid imagination. Once you know theActing in a mature and intelligent way, one can
personality of the other person, you have goneavoid lot of friction. If you find impossible to deal
one step ahead.with a person, get away. Verbal duals give nothing
The second step is reacting. Are you acting orbut pain. Life is too short to be spent in
reacting? Many of us react. We get easilyunnecessary arguments. Try and analyze your
provoked without any reason and react and lashrelationships. Do not waste precious moments of
out. That kills thinking because anger takes over.your life in arguments and fights. If you do so,
What should be done? Llisten to what the otheryou will realize your folly in future.