| I have seen lot of friction between
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| | other person says. Think about it and
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| intelligent people in my life. How to
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| | before answering count up to 100. I am
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| avoid that friction so that one need not
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| | not saying-10, but 100. After that
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| regret afterwards?
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| | instead of giving opinion or reacting,
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| First - look at the personality of the
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| | ask. Ask what the other person means by
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| other person. Is it verbal, emotional or
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| | what he/she says. that is very important.
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| pictorial? A verbal personality loves to
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| | By asking you make other person feel that
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| talk. You will hear a word such as it
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| | he/she is being heard. After you are
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| sounds well etc from such person. The
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| | satisfied that you have asked all- begin
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| word sound tells us about that
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| | your suggestions. No answers. Only
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| personality. The emotional personality
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| | suggestions. Begin with words such as-
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| feels. If she/he buys a car, they will
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| | suppose dear we do like this? Or suppose
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| try to feel the car with touch and
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| | dear, you leave this job and do not get
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| decide. A pictorial personality thinks in
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| | other
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| pictures. They go into vivid imagination.
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| | Acting in a mature and intelligent way,
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| Once you know the personality of the
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| | one can avoid lot of friction. If you
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| other person, you have gone one step
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| | find impossible to deal with a person,
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| ahead.
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| | get away. Verbal duals give nothing but
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| The second step is reacting. Are you
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| | pain. Life is too short to be spent in
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| acting or reacting? Many of us react. We
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| | unnecessary arguments. Try and analyze
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| get easily provoked without any reason
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| | your relationships. Do not waste precious
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| and react and lash out. That kills
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| | moments of your life in arguments and
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| thinking because anger takes over.
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| | fights. If you do so, you will realize
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| What should be done? Llisten to what the
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| | your folly in future.
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