| I have seen lot of friction between intelligent | | | | person says. Think about it and before answering |
| people in my life. How to avoid that friction so | | | | count up to 100. I am not saying-10, but 100. |
| that one need not regret afterwards? | | | | After that instead of giving opinion or reacting, |
| First - look at the personality of the other person. | | | | ask. Ask what the other person means by what |
| Is it verbal, emotional or pictorial? A verbal | | | | he/she says. that is very important. By asking |
| personality loves to talk. You will hear a word | | | | you make other person feel that he/she is being |
| such as it sounds well etc from such person. The | | | | heard. After you are satisfied that you have |
| word sound tells us about that personality. The | | | | asked all- begin your suggestions. No answers. |
| emotional personality feels. If she/he buys a car, | | | | Only suggestions. Begin with words such as- |
| they will try to feel the car with touch and decide. | | | | suppose dear we do like this? Or suppose dear, |
| A pictorial personality thinks in pictures. They go | | | | you leave this job and do not get other |
| into vivid imagination. Once you know the | | | | Acting in a mature and intelligent way, one can |
| personality of the other person, you have gone | | | | avoid lot of friction. If you find impossible to deal |
| one step ahead. | | | | with a person, get away. Verbal duals give nothing |
| The second step is reacting. Are you acting or | | | | but pain. Life is too short to be spent in |
| reacting? Many of us react. We get easily | | | | unnecessary arguments. Try and analyze your |
| provoked without any reason and react and lash | | | | relationships. Do not waste precious moments of |
| out. That kills thinking because anger takes over. | | | | your life in arguments and fights. If you do so, |
| What should be done? Llisten to what the other | | | | you will realize your folly in future. |